Speedhate!!!

Apparently according to my mate I'm not pulling my weight with the site she created with the sole purpose of getting me a date. Not to sound ungrateful but I neither asked her nor do I condone the creating of the site in fact I find the whole idea of her involvement in my Love life a bit control freak physco. The fact that she finds it necessary to set me up at all suggests to me that maybe she's missing something in her own relationship and that instead of involving herself in mine she should take a look a her own. I know that she probably means well however can she not see how it may be just a little bit insensitive and even condescending that she finds that I alone am so obviously incapable of finding myself someone!?
I just find it a bit weird why is it she feels the need to have the control over me!? Is that what its really about underneath? How would she feel if I was to go about wading into her personal life and suddenly demanding that she see's this person on my say so or that one? Would she if she were not so "happily" coupled up herself probably think the same way as me? Would she then go and "date" the men I'd shortlisted for her knowing nothing about them putting herself in a potentially embarrassing or even dangerous situation? Somehow I think not and somehow I think that perhaps she would be as wary as me and perhaps she should consider this fact:
Perhaps the reason that I am single is because one to many times I've trusted a friend.